Cast your mind back to the last big deal your organization closed. Who was the star of the show? If yours is like most businesses, plaudits will undoubtedly have gone to the salesperson closing the deal. In a typical Businesses-to-Business (B2B) scenario, the seller is often cast as the hero when it comes to getting a buyer to sign on the dotted line, like a character overcoming unspeakable odds to slay a giant and bring the goods home. But this isn’t a Marvel epic, nor is it The Wolf of Wall Street, it’s business. And while praise and recognition should absolutely be rained on hard-working team members, the sales narrative doesn’t work without the main protagonist: the buyer.
Closing a sales cycle requires experience, nuance, responsiveness, empathy, and unwavering attention to detail. It also requires an element of ego, with some pressure and deadlines thrown in for good measure. That’s a heady cocktail. In all likelihood, particularly when it comes to B2B, your organization probably has a very insular culture. That’s because traditional sales models often center on pushing products, warming up buyers, meeting quotas, securing the all-crucial upsell, and ultimately adding sale closures to the scoring board—the bigger, the better. Yet, while sellers do their selling, buyers are often left to navigate a sea of emails, meetings, proposals, and other assets, with the weighty expectation that they’ll be able to absorb all of the information they need to satisfy bosses and stakeholders in their own organizations.
I’d argue that it’s time to flip the script. Rather than make your salesperson the hero, arming them with all the tools and information they need to close a sale, why not pay that same level of attention to the buyer? By elevating the buyer and making them the hero, we can create experiences that empower buyers to steer their internal processes, build consensus, and champion your solutions with confidence. Put simply, when the buyer shines, everyone shines.
The Flaws of a Seller-Centric Approach
As I’ve mentioned, sales strategies often revolve around aggressive tactics: pushing products, chasing quotas, and essentially prioritizing the deal over the journey. This seller-focused mindset can feel transactional, leaving buyers overwhelmed and disengaged. In my experience, a salesperson’s focus on hitting targets tends to result in a flurry of impersonal emails, generic proposals, and a lack of alignment with what the buyer truly needs. Over time, this approach erodes trust and makes the sales process feel like an uphill battle for buyers rather than a guided path to a solution.
What’s worse, the complexity of modern B2B sales—spanning multiple stakeholders, lengthy timelines, and intricate decisions—only amplifies the shortcomings of a seller-first approach. Buyers are no longer passive recipients of information; they expect tailored guidance and support. Without a clear focus on the buyer’s priorities, sellers risk alienating decision-makers, delaying deals, or losing opportunities altogether. Adapting to this reality isn’t just a good idea—it’s essential for success.
Rewriting the Playbook
Turning the sales process into a buyer-first experience begins with a fundamental shift in perspective. Instead of seeing the buyer as a target, organizations need to start viewing them as a partner. Think Business-with-Business instead of Business-to-Business. This means prioritizing transparency and creating an environment where buyers feel informed and empowered. Providing clear, accessible communication—where key documents, proposals, and updates are easy to locate for all concerned parties—lays the foundation for trust. Beyond that, sellers need to focus on collaboration, offering insights that address the buyer’s specific challenges and aligning their efforts with the buyer’s goals.
It also requires an understanding of the buyer’s internal dynamics. Modern sales rarely involve a single decision-maker; they often depend on a committee of stakeholders with differing priorities. By delivering tailored value at each stage—whether through timely responses, well-organized materials, or thoughtful engagement—sellers can help buyers navigate these complexities with relative ease. When buyers feel supported and equipped to advocate for a solution within their organizations, the path to a successful deal becomes that much smoother. It’s not the sales cycle that matters; it’s the decision cycle.
Empowering Relationships with AI
Buying and selling is, and will always be a human endeavor. That said, there are ways that AI can augment the sales cycle to level the playing field and make each and every player feel like an active, knowledgeable participant in the deal. Instead of throwing information at the buyer and hoping for results, AI can track meetings, surface action points, provide context-sensitive information when it’s most likely needed, and gauge sentiment and engagement from both sellers and buyers. By eliminating the scatter-gun approach to sales and making all relevant information available within a single, unified platform to which buyers also hold the keys, both parties can focus on what really matters—solving problems and making informed decisions. When deployed thoughtfully, AI platforms can turn what has traditionally been a seller-centric labyrinth of twists and turns into a guided journey along a straight road where both parties can genuinely meet in the middle.
Conversational chatbots can also play a role when deployed judiciously. People will always be the beating heart of the deal, but when it comes to sourcing information, interrogating data, or finding facts to reinforce your beliefs regarding a certain aspect of the sales cycle, “self service” via an integrated bot is far easier than back-and-forth emails and poring through brochures.
Making the buyer the hero isn’t just a shift in tactics; it’s a reimagining of sales success. By focusing on empowerment, clarity, and collaboration, organizations can create experiences that resonate far beyond the deal. In a world where trust and alignment matter more than ever, those who prioritize the buyer will lead the way.
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